Sup guys (and girls)
Its about that time of year for me - Women troubles.
So there is this girl (as is normal for this kinda story to start), and we have been getting pretty close since July. I met her through work, we worked together for a while and then my contract ended so I move about 6 hours away. At first our friendship was really exciting. Like we would be really into each other, then one of us would get cold feet, then the other would. It was proper 'Teenager in love stuff'. Anyway once I moved away we kept in contact. Defiantly texting every day and calling pretty much every night. It was awesome. I really liked her, we would talk about random shit for hours.
So then about 2 weeks ago I went back up to see her. It had been about a month since we last saw each other and was great to spend time together again. Especially because of all the texting/calling I really felt like I was getting to know her so much better and I liked all of it. The week flew by and I even stayed and extra day so we could spend more time together.
This Thursday she had a holiday. Well she went back to her mum and dads to see them again (she worked away from home as well). Now this is where the story gets interesting. He ex boyfriend lives next door to her mum and dad. Now they were together before she met me and they were actually together when we started talking. In the past I have cheated and been cheated on, but thats in the past. I like to think that as I have got older I have got wiser (like an Owl). As such I didn't make a move on her whilst she was with her boyfriend. We talked a lot and there was obviously a connection there but I am a gentleman. She told me that her and her boyfriend were going through some troubles and had been for about 2 months. I said that if she wanted to talk about it then I would listen, but I couldn't offer too much advice as we had only just met.
Anyway, I digress. So he has been over her house all the time she has been home. You see he really didn't take their break-up too well, for instance he still referred to her as his girlfriend on Facebook. I have to admit that I did feel genuinely sorry for him, but I also was falling for her as well. Slowly over this weekend he has been working his way into her again. I don't have any actual proof that this was the case but look at the facts - He still is in love with her. He lives next door. He is really friendly with her mum and dad. It really doesn't take a telegram to 221b Baker Street to work out this one.
Well, tonight I got a text message. One that I had been dreading I would receive. It would appear that it all kicked off tonight. Apparently his mother how now come over and beaten up this girls mother, "and the reason why?" I hear you ask with bated breath. He has chosen to be with this girl rather than his own family. I mean really? You couldn't make this shit up. This is pure gold dust right here. If any hollywood producers stumble across this story and think that they could turn it in to a Romance/Comedy/Thriller/Horror/Action film then I have the copy write.
Its fucking bullshit. I mean it really is. So now she is telling me that we have no future because it has all got too much for her. He obviously has some issues, and I mean who doesn't when emotions are involved. We all have our own way of coping. My own way is to write about it and let the whole internet have a read - Nothing wrong with that. His way, would appear, is to say "Fuck you mum, i'm gonna chose this girl who isn't my girlfriend and is really quite close to another guy and is really happy in her life right now over you" YEA! That will make me feel like a man!
So now, I am not going to get to be with this totally awesome girl who I was falling for. She is going to be unhappy (there was a reason they broke up in the first place, remember - keep up!) and he is going to be pissed off that she doesn't want to be with him and thanks to walking out of home his toast is no-longer going to be buttered in the morning.
I feel that if you look on a situation there is always someone to blame, but I really am having trouble telling who it is right now. A good detective with always look within first. So lets do that . . . . . . . . .
ME
What have I done wrong? Well. There was the fact that I was chatting to her when she had a bloke. I do kinda feel a little guilty about that. We never did anything, but we did talk for a while. Honestly, apart from that, for once, I think I am all quite innocent in this.
HER
What did she do wrong? At first it would seem nothing. I mean she split up with him. She failed to tell him that me and her were getting close at the start and only mentioned it this weekend. I think that could have played a major factor in him throwing ALL his toys out of his pram. She also wasn't as strong as I hope she could be. I was genuinely concerned for her to go back home. I thought something like this would/could happen. She promised me that she was strong.
HIM
Now. Well. Strangely enough I still feel sorry for him. There have been women in my life who, during a break-up, I would move the ends of the earth for if I could. If it meant getting back together with them, then I would do anything. However, I do kinda draw the line at fucking off my family home and moving in with her, after she has split up with me, after 3 months, and then she is moving away again in 5 days.
Now the question I pose to you. Is this . . . . . . . Does that make him a better boyfriend for doing what he did, or does it make him less of a man because he has messed up so many lives?
I mean where actually does the line get drawn between being in love and going too far??? Is it something that we actually have to regulate within our own self being??? Emotions are a strong and powerful thing. There are people in this world who would kill for love, others just settle for making everyone unhappy. Emotions are the thing that brings us down to our primal selves. When we are in pain, we yell. When we are happy, we smile. They are things that we have to control over. It scares me that I might actually be so in love one day that I will ruins peoples lives because of it.
T
x
Oh and the comedy part of this tale - He is spending the night, in her room, tonight, so I can't even speak to her about it!!! - Thought that would make you all laugh, I'm having a ball!
Its about that time of year for me - Women troubles.
So there is this girl (as is normal for this kinda story to start), and we have been getting pretty close since July. I met her through work, we worked together for a while and then my contract ended so I move about 6 hours away. At first our friendship was really exciting. Like we would be really into each other, then one of us would get cold feet, then the other would. It was proper 'Teenager in love stuff'. Anyway once I moved away we kept in contact. Defiantly texting every day and calling pretty much every night. It was awesome. I really liked her, we would talk about random shit for hours.
So then about 2 weeks ago I went back up to see her. It had been about a month since we last saw each other and was great to spend time together again. Especially because of all the texting/calling I really felt like I was getting to know her so much better and I liked all of it. The week flew by and I even stayed and extra day so we could spend more time together.
This Thursday she had a holiday. Well she went back to her mum and dads to see them again (she worked away from home as well). Now this is where the story gets interesting. He ex boyfriend lives next door to her mum and dad. Now they were together before she met me and they were actually together when we started talking. In the past I have cheated and been cheated on, but thats in the past. I like to think that as I have got older I have got wiser (like an Owl). As such I didn't make a move on her whilst she was with her boyfriend. We talked a lot and there was obviously a connection there but I am a gentleman. She told me that her and her boyfriend were going through some troubles and had been for about 2 months. I said that if she wanted to talk about it then I would listen, but I couldn't offer too much advice as we had only just met.
Anyway, I digress. So he has been over her house all the time she has been home. You see he really didn't take their break-up too well, for instance he still referred to her as his girlfriend on Facebook. I have to admit that I did feel genuinely sorry for him, but I also was falling for her as well. Slowly over this weekend he has been working his way into her again. I don't have any actual proof that this was the case but look at the facts - He still is in love with her. He lives next door. He is really friendly with her mum and dad. It really doesn't take a telegram to 221b Baker Street to work out this one.
Well, tonight I got a text message. One that I had been dreading I would receive. It would appear that it all kicked off tonight. Apparently his mother how now come over and beaten up this girls mother, "and the reason why?" I hear you ask with bated breath. He has chosen to be with this girl rather than his own family. I mean really? You couldn't make this shit up. This is pure gold dust right here. If any hollywood producers stumble across this story and think that they could turn it in to a Romance/Comedy/Thriller/Horror/Action film then I have the copy write.
Its fucking bullshit. I mean it really is. So now she is telling me that we have no future because it has all got too much for her. He obviously has some issues, and I mean who doesn't when emotions are involved. We all have our own way of coping. My own way is to write about it and let the whole internet have a read - Nothing wrong with that. His way, would appear, is to say "Fuck you mum, i'm gonna chose this girl who isn't my girlfriend and is really quite close to another guy and is really happy in her life right now over you" YEA! That will make me feel like a man!
So now, I am not going to get to be with this totally awesome girl who I was falling for. She is going to be unhappy (there was a reason they broke up in the first place, remember - keep up!) and he is going to be pissed off that she doesn't want to be with him and thanks to walking out of home his toast is no-longer going to be buttered in the morning.
I feel that if you look on a situation there is always someone to blame, but I really am having trouble telling who it is right now. A good detective with always look within first. So lets do that . . . . . . . . .
ME
What have I done wrong? Well. There was the fact that I was chatting to her when she had a bloke. I do kinda feel a little guilty about that. We never did anything, but we did talk for a while. Honestly, apart from that, for once, I think I am all quite innocent in this.
HER
What did she do wrong? At first it would seem nothing. I mean she split up with him. She failed to tell him that me and her were getting close at the start and only mentioned it this weekend. I think that could have played a major factor in him throwing ALL his toys out of his pram. She also wasn't as strong as I hope she could be. I was genuinely concerned for her to go back home. I thought something like this would/could happen. She promised me that she was strong.
HIM
Now. Well. Strangely enough I still feel sorry for him. There have been women in my life who, during a break-up, I would move the ends of the earth for if I could. If it meant getting back together with them, then I would do anything. However, I do kinda draw the line at fucking off my family home and moving in with her, after she has split up with me, after 3 months, and then she is moving away again in 5 days.
Now the question I pose to you. Is this . . . . . . . Does that make him a better boyfriend for doing what he did, or does it make him less of a man because he has messed up so many lives?
I mean where actually does the line get drawn between being in love and going too far??? Is it something that we actually have to regulate within our own self being??? Emotions are a strong and powerful thing. There are people in this world who would kill for love, others just settle for making everyone unhappy. Emotions are the thing that brings us down to our primal selves. When we are in pain, we yell. When we are happy, we smile. They are things that we have to control over. It scares me that I might actually be so in love one day that I will ruins peoples lives because of it.
T
x
Oh and the comedy part of this tale - He is spending the night, in her room, tonight, so I can't even speak to her about it!!! - Thought that would make you all laugh, I'm having a ball!
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