So I'm back.
You can always tell when I feeling emotional because I blog more.
As the keen-eyed lot of you would have noticed I have changed the domain name. From toowol - 2wol. See what I did there? Great isn't it?
Anyway the reason behind such a dramatic and clever change of name is thus . . . . . .
The girl that I wrote about in my 'Men from mars' post, remember her? Well today it has kinda all sorted itself. Not in a good way but I can finally see where this is all going now. So, I decided this morning that we could still be friends. I mean she is a awesome woman, I got on with her really well and she makes me happy. So it seemed obvious? Right? I decided that I would send a message to her new/old bloke. Now I can already hear the groans around the room but hear me out. In fact, better that than just read what I said to him.
Hi
So you probably hate me at the moment. That’s understandable. I don’t hate you. I really don’t. You probably don’t need me to say this to you but I feel I have to, so please, hear me out afterwards you can ignore me and I wont contact you again.
Please look after her. Please treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. Please care for her with all your heart. She is an amazing woman. Like I said, I know that you already know this stuff and I am preaching to the converted here. Back off sometimes though. No one can fault how much you care for her, that is plain for all to see, but sometimes she needs her space. She has so much potential that she needs the space to spread her wings. This doesn’t mean that you can’t love her any less, not at all. Just let her fly and she will carry you along for the flight, she is that kind of person, and the journey will be amazing.
I really do wish you two all the very best for the future. It’s kind of weird sending this message to you but I care for her too, and if you make her happy, then I am happy too.
I am sorry for any pain I caused you. That really wasn’t on purpose. I never wanted any of this to happen.
Take care of her and I wish you both all the happiness in the future.
T
Even I was impressed with that message, I mean every word of what I said there. But as the day drew on (and as I washing my car) I came to realise that I actually haven't had my chance to put my side of the story across. I have been unable to phone her to talk about this because he has always been in the room, or she has had family over or some other feeble reason. This made me think IT'S UNFAIR! I don't mean to sound like a stroppy teenager at all. That is not my intent. Looking at the facts there is no denying that it is unfair, if it had been a trail in a courtroom the Defence has had no chance to make his case. Tap Tap Tap "GUILTY"
Because of this I have decided to not talk to her and not be friends. I also feel that I was actually so good to her (I may not have been, but I honestly feel like I done all I could to make it work) that the only way she will truly miss me and see that is by not having me in her life. I suppose she is trying to cherry pick the best parts of both men to make herself truly happy. Well I am sorry sweetheart, life don't work that way. Unless you are on that god awful programme Geordie Shore, then you have your cherry, then the cake, then someone else's cake, then you embarrass yourself on national T.V, then poison me with your eyes! - Yea I got issues!
Back to ME and MY life. She still wants to be my friend and when I said that I wasn't going to talk to her anymore, she said that she would still read this. THAT is why I have had to change the domain name.
So what is the lesson that we have all learnt here today? I am not going to start censoring this blog. This is my escape from the real world. I suppose look at it this way - I will not be bothered if someone that I know goes out of their way to find this blog. If they have put in that much effort - bloody hell, give them something to read, but I will not openly advertise the address. Thats a good little deal eh?
Right, good to have you back in these surroundings!
Take care and be wonderful to each other.
T
x
You can always tell when I feeling emotional because I blog more.
As the keen-eyed lot of you would have noticed I have changed the domain name. From toowol - 2wol. See what I did there? Great isn't it?
Anyway the reason behind such a dramatic and clever change of name is thus . . . . . .
The girl that I wrote about in my 'Men from mars' post, remember her? Well today it has kinda all sorted itself. Not in a good way but I can finally see where this is all going now. So, I decided this morning that we could still be friends. I mean she is a awesome woman, I got on with her really well and she makes me happy. So it seemed obvious? Right? I decided that I would send a message to her new/old bloke. Now I can already hear the groans around the room but hear me out. In fact, better that than just read what I said to him.
Hi
So you probably hate me at the moment. That’s understandable. I don’t hate you. I really don’t. You probably don’t need me to say this to you but I feel I have to, so please, hear me out afterwards you can ignore me and I wont contact you again.
Please look after her. Please treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. Please care for her with all your heart. She is an amazing woman. Like I said, I know that you already know this stuff and I am preaching to the converted here. Back off sometimes though. No one can fault how much you care for her, that is plain for all to see, but sometimes she needs her space. She has so much potential that she needs the space to spread her wings. This doesn’t mean that you can’t love her any less, not at all. Just let her fly and she will carry you along for the flight, she is that kind of person, and the journey will be amazing.
I really do wish you two all the very best for the future. It’s kind of weird sending this message to you but I care for her too, and if you make her happy, then I am happy too.
I am sorry for any pain I caused you. That really wasn’t on purpose. I never wanted any of this to happen.
Take care of her and I wish you both all the happiness in the future.
T
Even I was impressed with that message, I mean every word of what I said there. But as the day drew on (and as I washing my car) I came to realise that I actually haven't had my chance to put my side of the story across. I have been unable to phone her to talk about this because he has always been in the room, or she has had family over or some other feeble reason. This made me think IT'S UNFAIR! I don't mean to sound like a stroppy teenager at all. That is not my intent. Looking at the facts there is no denying that it is unfair, if it had been a trail in a courtroom the Defence has had no chance to make his case. Tap Tap Tap "GUILTY"
Because of this I have decided to not talk to her and not be friends. I also feel that I was actually so good to her (I may not have been, but I honestly feel like I done all I could to make it work) that the only way she will truly miss me and see that is by not having me in her life. I suppose she is trying to cherry pick the best parts of both men to make herself truly happy. Well I am sorry sweetheart, life don't work that way. Unless you are on that god awful programme Geordie Shore, then you have your cherry, then the cake, then someone else's cake, then you embarrass yourself on national T.V, then poison me with your eyes! - Yea I got issues!
Back to ME and MY life. She still wants to be my friend and when I said that I wasn't going to talk to her anymore, she said that she would still read this. THAT is why I have had to change the domain name.
So what is the lesson that we have all learnt here today? I am not going to start censoring this blog. This is my escape from the real world. I suppose look at it this way - I will not be bothered if someone that I know goes out of their way to find this blog. If they have put in that much effort - bloody hell, give them something to read, but I will not openly advertise the address. Thats a good little deal eh?
Right, good to have you back in these surroundings!
Take care and be wonderful to each other.
T
x
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